tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2796824793923975949.post7607888851172643609..comments2010-02-14T23:29:21.501-08:00Comments on Daughter OUT Law: Tired of the same old story..Daughter Outlawedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184292863337046689noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2796824793923975949.post-75294074135858058202010-02-14T23:29:21.501-08:002010-02-14T23:29:21.501-08:00Dear friend ( i hope you don't mind me calling...Dear friend ( i hope you don't mind me calling you that) i know what you've been going through is really like tough and bad, i may be quite inexperienced in comparison to you but what i think is whenever your in laws say anything bad about your parents confront them and tell them politely that you don't really like listening these things coz just imagine the time when you were unmarried or even now when anyone says anything bad about you yours parents will not feel good about it and will obviously talk to that person about his comment on you. They are your parents they have given you birth, listening to anything that is against or bad about them is just so unjustified......<br /><br />I don't know whether this will help but you can try this as a part of your duty towards them......" When i was thinking"https://www.blogger.com/profile/04055634948837980631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2796824793923975949.post-55633480753513338542010-02-04T10:37:02.920-08:002010-02-04T10:37:02.920-08:00I've just read your post, and honestly this is...I've just read your post, and honestly this is heartbreaking. It sounds as though you're taking the brunt of a controlling bully. I have a MIL/FIL who are both absolute nutcases and wracked my brains for 8 years wondering how to go about them the right way, thinking it was all my fault etc. One day I had enough, and haven't spoken to them in over a year and never will again (they did something toward the end that is utterly unforgiveable but will not get into it) <br />I would strongly advise you to speak to your husband first, tell him that you'd like to stand up for your family and yourself and tell him you'd like him to support you. Could you talk to your family about it as well?<br />Would you accept that treatment from your husband? From your own family? I don't know much about traditional Indian beliefs, but I know that nobody deserves to put up with mistreatment and abuse. It can consume your life and eat you up. I really hope it works out and you can have a peaceful relationship with your inlaws. Good luckAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com